Author’s Personal Assistant: The Secret Weapon Behind Your Writing Success
“If you want to do a few small things right, do them yourself. If you want to do great things and make a big impact, learn to delegate.” – John C. Maxwell
As I work 14-16+ hour days catching naughty folk for the Government, I’ve learned one crucial lesson about being an author: you can’t do it all alone. That’s where a Personal Assistant comes in—or at least, that’s what I thought when I hired my first PA.
The PA Journey: Learning from Missteps
“Experience is the name everyone gives to their mistakes.” – Oscar Wilde
Let me share a nightmare scenario that taught me the true cost of hiring the wrong PA.
My first PA was hired primarily to grow my email list and manage social media. This was their claimed niche expertise. However, over nine months—yes, nine months—they failed to add a single new subscriber to my list.
Worse yet, they managed to delete my entire newsletter from MailChimp. Research tasks went uncompleted, deadlines were missed. The situation reached its peak during my book launch when they took it upon themselves to simultaneously promote nine other authors’ books on my private Facebook forum—without permission or authorization.
After nearly a year of zero progress, I had to face the uncomfortable truth: sometimes firing a PA is the best business decision you can make.
Why Didn’t I Fire the First PA Sooner?
“Good judgment comes from experience, and experience comes from bad judgment.” – Rita Mae Brown
Between my demanding government job and writing career, delegating administrative tasks to a PA made perfect sense. I also believe in giving people second chances.
But what working with the first PA taught me is that while second chances are important, excessive mistakes that cost money and harm your reputation are unacceptable. Sometimes, no matter how much you like or love someone, you have to let them go. Yes, I’m talking to you Great Grandma Ma-Ma.
While I’m joking about firing your closest family members and friends (and the fictitious Great Grandma Ma-Ma is still employed and going strong), the lesson remains. Some individuals who aren’t the right fit should be allowed to move on when it’s not possible to turn their circumstances around.
What Makes a Great PA? Learning from Experience
What I learned through trial and error (emphasis on the error) is that a great Personal Assistant isn’t just someone who can schedule tweets or format blog posts—they’re a strategic partner in your writing career, wearing multiple hats with the grace of a Broadway costume quick-change artist.
Beyond the Basics: What a Great PA Does
“The secret of getting ahead is getting started. The secret of getting started is breaking your complex overwhelming tasks into small manageable tasks, and then starting on the first one.” – Mark Twain
Remember that TV show “The West Wing,” where the presidential assistants seemed to know what the president needed before they needed it? That’s what a great author’s PA does. They don’t just react—they anticipate.
Here’s what a great PA brings to an author’s life:
Calendar Mastery
A skilled PA creates protected blocks of time where nothing short of a family emergency interrupts creative flow. They expertly handle schedule conflicts, negotiate deadline extensions, and maintain the sanctity of your writing time. For a government professional juggling multiple responsibilities, this time management becomes invaluable.
Communication Command Center
More than just managing emails, an excellent PA serves as the guardian of your mental space. They distinguish between urgent matters (like that time-sensitive agent request) and tasks that can wait until after your daily word count is complete. They master the art of saying “no” gracefully while maintaining professional relationships.
Research Wizardry
When you need detailed information—whether it’s about 1920s speakeasies or modern spacecraft—a great PA delivers comprehensive briefs with reliable sources, saving you from research rabbit holes that could derail your writing momentum.
Social Media and Online Presence
A professional PA develops and maintains a content calendar system that runs like a well-oiled machine. They capture your voice so authentically that followers can’t distinguish between your posts and theirs. Most importantly, they know when to pull you away from social media distractions and back to what matters—writing.
Finding Your Perfect PA Match (And Avoiding Costly Mistakes)
After my disastrous first experience, I learned that finding the right PA isn’t just about checking off technical skills. It’s about finding someone who:
- Understands the creative process and its unique demands
- Adapts to your working style and quirks
- Takes initiative while respecting boundaries and your brand
- Demonstrates accountability and transparency
- Maintains strict privacy and professional boundaries
- Views their role as enabling your success, not just completing tasks
The Investment: What to Expect
“The best investment you can make is in yourself.” – Warren Buffett
Let’s talk numbers – because this is often the elephant in the room. Professional PAs typically charge between $25-75 per hour, depending on their experience and the scope of responsibilities. Some prefer monthly retainers, which can range from $500-2000+ per month for part-time support.
While these numbers might seem steep, here’s the reality: When I calculated the hours I spent on administrative tasks instead of writing, I realized I was losing more money trying to “save” on a PA’s salary than I would have spent hiring the right person. For someone working intense government hours like mine, even five hours of PA support weekly can free up crucial creative energy for writing.
Consider this: If your hourly writing income potential is $100+ (through books, speaking engagements, and other opportunities), every hour spent on administrative tasks costs you not just time, but significant income.
The Real Value
“Time is the most valuable thing a man can spend.” – Theophrastus
The true worth of a great PA isn’t just in the tasks they complete—it’s in the mental space they create. It’s those moments when you can fully immerse yourself in your story without worrying about whether you remembered to send that important email or update your website.
As authors, our most valuable commodity isn’t our time—it’s our creative energy. A great PA protects and nurtures that energy, allowing us to focus on what we do best: writing stories that matter.
Your Turn
Have you worked with a PA? I’d love to hear about your experiences – the good, the bad, and the lessons learned. Share your stories in the comments below, or join our monthly author chat where we discuss the business side of writing.
Next Steps for Hiring Your First (or Next) PA
- Define your specific needs and non-negotiables
- Create a clear job description with expectations and boundaries
- Set up a trial period (I recommend 30-90 days)
- Establish clear communication channels and response times
- Create systems for measuring success
Remember, The right PA doesn’t just manage your schedule—they help manage your success. And sometimes finding the right match takes time, but the investment in your writer career—priceless.
Key Takeaways
- A great PA is a strategic partner, not just a task manager
- Clear boundaries and expectations are crucial for success
- Investment in a PA frees up valuable creative energy
- The right PA should understand both your writing process and business needs
- Second chances are valuable, but know when to make necessary changes
About Author
J. W. Zarek is a Wall Street Journal Bestselling Author who has written or co-authored seventeen books, with nine published including seven #1 bestsellers. His picture books for children ages 4-8 focus on his “I am enough” mission.
With over 40 years of combined military and federal service, Zarek brings systematic analysis to complex problems. He’s developing the Authors for America nonprofit concept to connect schools that want author visits with qualified authors who want to visit schools, and fully fund those visits.
After retirement, he plans to do author visits full-time and pursue an MA in Folklore Studies at George Mason University with a concentration in Slavic mythology.
Learn more: www.jwzarek.com
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